Are you feeling stressed out? It may
be due to work, family, finances or relationship? Whatever the reason, we can’t
help but feel it.
We have different coping
mechanisms toward stress. Some people turn to eating comfort food; shopping;
watching TV shows, movies or videos on YouTube;
playing games like badminton or chess; running, biking or hiking; and singing
your heart out in a Videoke bar. However
you like to do it, there is only one goal: Relax
and Take a Break.
I have my fair share of stressors
around me. I often feel numb and helpless every time it comes around. I tried
different approaches in dealing with stress. Playing games on a tablet,
watching Korean TV series, cross-stitching, writing poems and even trying to
cook any recipe I saw on the internet. I often neglect everything around me. I
only focus on my daily routine: waking up, eating, taking care of my child,
doing household chores, marketing, looking after my small store, sleeping and
thinking about my problems. It is really boring and monotonous. I don’t even
know if I have a social life. I seldom meet friends (I only have a few) and not
really comfortable of small talks with people I don’t know.
Then recently, I came across a
post on Facebook, where a friend of
mine shared her journey to Alaska by posting pictures of nature (flowers,
fruits, fish, streams and mountains). I felt so relieved and thought of going
outside the house and checked our very own garden. I took a camera and started
taking pictures of plants and flowers. I never thought that nature itself is
therapeutic and suddenly cleared all worries in my mind. I was able to at least
stop for a while, breath and see how beautiful the world is. All creations complement
each other. It made me understand that life should be lived by the day. Other
living creatures does not worry too much about what to do or even what to eat
on the coming days because it will be provided. What matters is today and how
we make the most from it.
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